Monday, April 07, 2008

What a Morning!

This morning Makenna wound one of those fruit by the foot things all throughout her hair. She claimed she was just trying to wear it around her neck like a necklace but it looked more like she was trying to braid it throughout her hair. It was a disaster. Fortunately I immediately remembered the awesome conference talk from Elder Ballard that I heard yesterday, and I think it helped me to handle the situation pretty well. Elder Ballard talked to mothers about finding joy in the doing and not just focusing on getting it done. That really struck me as something I could improve upon. So I am trying to "enjoy" the time I have with my children and recognize all the wonderful moments we have together and not just try to get through the day and get them to bed. I actually laughed with Makenna as I picked the icky sticky gobs of goo out of her hair and remarkably as I pulled and tugged she didn't have a tantrum (if you know Makenna you know what a miracle this is). Ultimately I decided I would have to give Makenna a bit of a haircut. I was careful as I explained this to her- avoiding all use of the work "cut." I am by no means one capable of cutting hair but since hers is curly- I figure it didn't have to be exactly perfect. Here is a before and after shot (although the before picture doesn't really capture the immensity of the entanglement). I don't know if you can tell from the after shot but I took a couple inches off. I think she needed a good trim anyways.

5 comments:

Kevin B said...

You are an amazing woman, honey. And a wonderful mom! I am so proud of you!

KB

Tkent said...

so remind me saturday to tell you about my funny kaden moment this past week...it's too graphic to post on a blog. i'd rather pull gummy out of hair any day :) good job on not freaking out though- sometimes that's hard to do.

Rachel Durazzani said...

Good for you for enjoying the moment. Not always easy, but definitely worth it. Right? I think that talk made an impact on all of us...I haven't stopped thinking about it.
PS: The hair cut looks great!

Julie G said...

Oh what a sweetie! Sounds like you handled it beautifully! I enjoyed that talk as well.

Jennifer said...

That was one of my favorite talks as well. I'll definitely be re-reading that one! Great job handling the situation. It's not very easy to do!